What is it that makes a person’s identity?

Is that our last name? So when someone asks us who we are, we are a member of some family. Does our religion defines our identity? Or ethnicity? Or our profession? Or our moral values? Maybe our goals, what we are aiming to determine our identity.

There are many things that define us as a person, as an individual. When someone ask me who I am, do I have to tell all about myself, all personal data, all I love, all I strive for and what I want? 

Maybe our identity depends on the moment or stage in life. But then that would mean that identity is constantly changing, and it is something that should be formed and that does not change, right?

And maybe it does not change the identity, but changes the importance of all the above enumerated. I will always be a Christian, and that is how I will introduce myself when someone asks me who I am. Then a few years later, I will say “I’m a psychologist”, because at that moment it’s something that’s important to me. But I am still a Christian, right?

What do you say when someone asks you who you are?

Happiness is in small things.

Associate with positive people

If you spend too much time with people who are constantly unhappy and negative, and they do not do anything to change that, it will certainly have an impact on you. Distance yourself as much as possible and show to them that everything can be seen from a different angle. Help them to change the view. If you manage to make them happy and encourage them to do something for themselves, that will make you happy also.

Be grateful

If you have friends and family and you are surrounded by people who love you, be grateful. If you have a job, whatever it was, be grateful. Maybe your relationships are not perfect, a job is not a dream job, but you must always be aware that there are people who do not have any of that, but they are often more positive and stronger. Be grateful for everything you have in your life.

Make other people happy

Take a little of your time for others and do something for them. Buy them a small gift, surprise them for no reason. Felling is amazing.

Find something that makes you happy in every day.

Did your grandma used to say to you, when you were a kid, that when it thunders you must turn off the computer, mobile and do not answer the landline because lightning will kill you?


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